9 Reasons Why You Should Organise A Destination Wedding

Planning for a wedding can be a year-long marathon! From selecting between Hydrangeas and Peonies, to blush pink or mint green bridesmaids dresses, there is enough on the plate to make this your full-time job. Unfortunately, we cannot all afford the time. If the classic 90’s hit movie, “Father of the Bride” is anything to go by, you can understand why more people have been flocking to destination weddings rather than dealing with the hassle of planning a local one.

Though destination weddings used to be synonymous with dollar signs, the reality is that they are now much more affordable and way easier to plan!

Let’s break it down into 9 simple reasons…


1. TRIM THE FAT
Let’s be real. We’re not keen to invite that awkward co-worker or our grandmother’s neighbor’s dog-walker. Invite those you really want to celebrate with and those whom have made an impact in your life. People will be understanding if they’re not invited and those who really care will make an extra effort to be there on your special day. With a reduced guest list, your total head-cost will be cut down significantly. This means more money to spend at the bar!

2. CUT THE DRAMA
Family politics often pokes its ugly nose through despite your valiant efforts. This is especially difficult for couples who have met abroad, and so the question then begs, “Whose hometown do we choose?” Selecting somewhere exotic creates the perfect middle-ground for both families. Family members who tend to dominate the arena have less say, giving you more freedom to do what you want to do and leaving with less casualties than a Game of Thrones wedding!

3. STRESS-FREE
Resorts are making it easier than ever with packages catered to your every need. Basic packages in resorts often include the celebrant, wedding certificate, floral decor, a wedding cake, catering, and plenty more (most websites have these listed online, including the price). Wedding specialists at resorts understand that you’ve traveled a great deal and aim to make your experience as easy as possible. They have a wealth of experience, so communicate your vision to them and let them execute your plan.

4. FLEXIBILITY
No longer do you need to book 2 years in advance to secure ‘THE’ Saturday or Sunday, which often costs more than a regular weekday. With a destination wedding, you can select a random midweek day, allowing your guests plenty of time before and after to enjoy themselves as they please. An added bonus is not having to worry about finding a ‘DD’ (designated driver) or being the ‘DD’. Party well into the night and roll into bed soon after! (Your own bed, preferably!)

5. SHARING IS CARING
Worried that your inner-bridezilla may make its debut? Don’t stress! Both partners are more likely to get involved when it comes to destination planning. If your partner isn’t into the finer details of planning, handling excursions for the guests or the alcohol consumption department is a great start.

6. CULTURAL FUSION
Be creative! Whether you’re celebrating your wedding perched atop a cliff or tucked away in the back of a Thai vineyard, combine your cultural traditions into the setting, the food, or even the dances.Things to not say while taking a photo atop a cliff… “If you could all take a few steps back…”

7. BIG REUNION
With friends and family spread across the globe, your wedding is the perfect excuse to bring everyone back together again. The extra days before and after the wedding creates for a more relaxed atmosphere. Why spend a year planning for only a few hours worth when you can spread it over a few days! This allows for ample opportunity to actually catch up with every single one of your guests. Plus, it’s a vacation for everyone! Explore a new city and experience the charms with your loved ones right by your side.

8. POINT, SHOOT, UPLOAD
If you’re trigger happy, chances are you’ll already have 3 months worth of photos on hand! Well, what better backdrop can you ask for with a destination wedding? Sneak Mother Nature into your planning committee and you could end up with a jaw-dropping cinematic backdrop worthy of an oscar. Your wedding is the centrepiece of your life, so make sure you capture the memories, the laughter, the charms of the city, and all the other moments in between.

9. HONEYMOON ASAP
Most couples I know would either dart off before the party ended or wait a year - when work would grant another annual leave - and go off on their honeymoon then. With a destination wedding, your honeymoon begins the second you say, “I do!” This is the biggest party you’ll ever throw in your life so make it a memorable and lasting one. Still looking for a little bit of privacy? Hop over to the next island for a mini romantic getaway. It’s that easy!

Still not convinced that a destination is right for you? Well, here at Hitchbird, we’ve taken the liberty of digging around for numbers so that you don’t have to. We’ve pitted the heavyweight champs of Asia against an exotic contender as an example of costs.

HONG KONG & SINGAPORE V.S. THAILAND - ROUND 1

Budgeting is crucial but you shouldn’t have to compromise your vision because of it. Explore the many vendors and services available on our Hitchbird platform to see what’s the best for you and soon, you could be starting your life anew with the love of your life, sand between your toes, and a Mai Tai in your hands! Happy planning, Hitchbirds!

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